Investing and Life: Closer Than You Think

 I’m not sure if it’s the spring air, the fact I’m spending a lot of time outdoors or just the absurdity going on these days that have caused me to reflect on many things, including investing and life in general.

Investing isn’t just about growing wealth—it’s a philosophy that mirrors the principles of living a good life. The disciplines and mindset required for successful investing often align closely with the attributes that lead to personal fulfillment, stability, and happiness. I’d like to walk through a few ideas on where I see the correlations and how they can help both our financial and personal journeys.

The Role of Temperament

One of the most profound parallels between investing and living a good life lies in the importance of temperament. Contrary to popular belief, high intelligence is not the primary driver of success in investing. Instead, emotional discipline and self-awareness take centre stage. Similarly, in life, it is not our intellectual capacities but our ability to navigate challenges with patience, focus, discipline, and adaptability that determines our overall well-being.

A good life and successful investing both require defining and respecting our boundaries. Investors thrive by identifying their circle of competence—the areas where they truly understand the risks and opportunities. Straying into unfamiliar territory out of curiosity or greed can lead to poor decisions. Likewise, knowing our strengths and weaknesses in life helps us make choices that align with our values and goals, preventing unnecessary frustration or failure.

Defining and Embracing Risk

Risk, both in life and investing, is often misunderstood. Many equate it to volatility or instability, but true risk is the potential for harm or loss. This concept is deeply tied to time horizons. In investing, a long-term perspective often reduces the impact of short-term market fluctuations. Similarly, living a good life requires the ability to endure and overcome temporary setbacks while keeping an eye on long-term aspirations. In both life and investing there is no free pass, everyone goes through periods of pain and turmoil. Trying to avoid these periods takes a lot of energy and causes anxiety for no benefit.

However, enduring risk does not mean being reckless. Both investors and individuals must assess potential consequences realistically. The key is balancing calculated risks with prudence—whether deciding to invest even in a volatile period or taking a leap toward a new career or relationship. You will never know for sure if anything is 100% assured- if you wait, you’ll always being waiting and there is definitely a risk in that.

Patience and Discipline

“The stock market is a device for transferring money from the impatient to the patient,” said Warren Buffett. This wisdom applies to life as well. Quick gratification often leads to poor choices, while patience and discipline tend to yield sustainable and rewarding outcomes. Investors who hold their assets for decades understand the power of compounding, both in wealth and personal growth.

In life, patience allows us to build meaningful relationships, acquire skills, and achieve goals. Just as a portfolio matures over time, so do our aspirations and endeavors when nurtured with consistency and care. Sometimes our younger self would not recognize the person you are today. We grow, push ourselves to do things and through patience and discipline we accomplish financial and personal successes we would never have dreamed were possible as our younger version.

Greed vs. Rationality

Greed can be disastrous in both investing and life. It clouds judgment, leading to impulsive and irrational decisions. Rationality, on the other hand, fosters balance. Investors succeed by maintaining realistic expectations and avoiding overreach, and the same principle applies to life. Striving for excessive gains—whether financial, social, or personal—often results in burnout or dissatisfaction. Moderation and a clear sense of purpose are essential for sustained success and happiness. Many people have accomplished financial success, want more and are struggling with finding their purpose. Others have accomplished a smaller level of financial success, have a very clear and fulfilling purpose. Wealth is not only measured in dollars.

The Intertwined Lessons

Ultimately, the principles that guide successful investing—emotional stability, long-term vision, patience and discipline —are the same principles that underpin a well-lived life. By adopting these habits, we not only improve our financial outcomes but also create a foundation for personal fulfillment. Investing isn’t just a financial act; it’s a philosophy for thriving in an unpredictable and ever-changing world, like 2025.